love

For the complete archive of my love, sex, and dating column, "Getting It," at The Cut at New York Magazine, click here.

"An Ode to the Strong, Silent Type: One Writer's Love Letter to Her Untalkative Boyfriend," Marie Claire, October 2017

"It’s tempting to dump your grievances during a breakup. Don’t do it," The Washington Post, September 2017

"Ten Breakfasts With Men I've Known," Extra Crispy, June 2016

"The Rules Of Rebounding: Is Taylor Swift Shaking Off Heartbreak As Her Brand?," The Guardian, June 2016

"Songs I Mourned Men To," Brooklyn Magazine, January 2016

"Why You're Wrong To Hate Valentine's Day," The Guardian, February 2016

"Advice from an accidental virgin: how to survive freshman year debauchery,"  The Guardian, September 2015

"It's OK to Hate Being Single," Pacific Standard, October 2015

"Vanity Fair Doesn't Understand What's Going On With Dating Or Tinder," Pacific Standard, August 2015

"What Hating Valentine's Day Really Means," BuzzFeed, February 2015